“Don’t be surprised if they only visit nude beaches in future”
by Megan
It’s one of the most common questions we get: how to sell the nude beach experience to a partner or loved one who is skeptical. If your person in question is willing to hear you out, here’s my advice:
Put Yourself in Their Shoes
Think back to when you had only ever visited textile beaches. What was it that convinced you to try out a nude beach? For me, it was moving to a new city and going with a partner who had heard of a really great beach (soft sand, calm, beautiful water) but it happened to be clothing-optional. The fact that the beach itself was a destination took the focus off the nudity part.
This is where empathy comes in. Try to understand that your partner’s hesitation might stem from nerves, misconceptions, or simply not knowing what to expect. Be patient and focus on what makes the beach special, whether it’s the scenery, the peaceful atmosphere, or the sense of freedom.
No Pressure
Try to understand that this might be an overwhelming ask of your loved one, so make sure they don’t feel obliged to participate. Go into the experience with the mindset of: we can go nude if we want, but we can also keep our bathing suits on if that’s where the day takes us.
Nine times out of ten you’ll likely end up nude, but at least this way your partner won’t feel pressure to do something they may not be comfortable with on the first visit. It’s also worth pointing out that plenty of people start small—maybe they’ll keep their swim bottoms on or take off their top only when lying down. It’s all about what feels right for them.
Strength in Numbers
During my first nude beach experience (when I didn’t think I would bare all), I was surprised how many people there were at the beach in varying degrees of undress. It made me realize this form of naturism is far more common than I thought and it really empowered me to strip down.
Talk to your partner about the community at nude beaches. Even if you don’t actively socialize with others there, it helps that others partake and it’s a ‘normal’ experience. This isn’t some fringe activity—it’s a welcoming space where people come to relax, embrace body positivity, and enjoy the beach in their own way.
Address Their Concerns
It’s natural for someone new to have concerns: What if we see someone we know? Will people stare at me? These awkward worries are valid, but they usually fade quickly. Most people at nude beaches are just there to unwind, not to judge. And let’s face it—most folks are far more focused on their own beach day than on what anyone else is doing.
If they’re still worried, pick a spot that’s a bit quieter or visit during off-peak times for a more private vibe.
Nude Beach Addict
Don’t be surprised if, now that you’ve managed to convince your loved one that nude beaches are superior, it’s the only beaches they want to visit! It’s funny how quickly first-time nerves can turn into full-blown enthusiasm. Once they experience the freedom and relaxation of a nude beach, there’s no going back. I can speak from experience!
Lucky for you both, we’ve got you covered when it comes to planning your next nude beach experience. Whether it’s finding the best clothing-optional spots near you or planning a beach getaway, we’re here to help.
Have you convinced your partner to visit a nude beach?
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Take the leap!
Embarking on a nude beach adventure is more than just a day out; it’s an experience, a statement, and for many, a journey of self-acceptance. Whether you’re going solo, with friends, or with a partner, the key is to remain authentic to yourself.
Choose a location that aligns with your spirit, and let the waves, winds, and sands tell their tales.
Don’t overthink it and just do it! We don’t think you’ll regret it!